Chuck Hagel Addresses Military Sexual Assault In West Point Commencement Speech Saturday, May 25 2013 

The article in the link below addresses those servicemen caught taking and collecting inappropriate footage of people in showers and bathrooms, and also sexual assault by supervisory staff in the military. This is not just happening in the military unfortunately and the footage is not just being trafficked by men, but what concerns me as a citizen of this country is that this “picture-taking” and “footage passing” has been going on now for years and somehow severity of the situation never seems to make it into any form of practical legislation to protect and restore the lives of the victims.

It is one thing to give a speech, but yet another to prove that what you are addressing is actually followed through with accountability and appropriate action from above. What bothers me personally, is that there seems virtually NO legal action for violating human rights until it is conveniently too late to prevent the damage to the victim and failure to act, or nonfeasance, from the professionals subsequently causing more harm to the victim.

And what is more, the people taking the photos and passing them are getting into positions of power over their victim and getting rewarded whether it be in the military, within companies who are allowing it, or in schools, so even though it might not be considered “sexual assault” in the classical sense of rape, it is still a perpetration of that person’s privacy for a sexual powerplay that results and subsequently sustains similar damage to the victim.

And it is being covered up and conveniently brushed under the carpet by some in healthcare and company CEOS as well as the military because no one wants to get involved and do anything about it, they would rather strategically set up the victim for blame they don’t deserve so they can “justify” violating people in their bedrooms and bathrooms for “freebie fun porn” to pass around.

But remember, not all of the perps are men, and in defense of good men, there are women doing it to people too. So in defense of some good men out there who are appropriate in their surveillance, there are some vicious women in higher positions doing it as well and not getting held accountable. In fact, they are getting rewarded for it. So if you are going to blame just men, the article would be wrong in doing so.

Time to bring down the snakeline of people doing it. I am not a righteous prude, but there is something called “consent” and rights to “full disclosure” that is making what they are doing unlawful. It is ruining the integrity of this country and causing hatred of others toward us. If that is how we want to represent ourselves, I feel sorry right now to be an American today.

They aren’t doing it because they like photography, they are doing it because someone is rewarding them for the inappropriate photos and filmmaking, and because they are getting a sexual power trip over having that kind of power over a subordinate. Don’t you know that the premise behind rape has nothing to do with sex? It has to do with having a sexual power and control over the victim.

If honest government officials TRULY want to fix this problem, they need to go after not only those collecting the photos, but who they are supplying the photos to, and whomoever is rewarding them for the public exploitation and demoralization. Why go after puppets and not the puppet masters? Then, and only then, maybe, will it stop.

What I have failed to disclose and hide rather well due to the fact that I am a woman under the glass ceiling is my exceptionally high IQ……

Those are my thoughts for today.



poem Thursday, May 23 2013 

There is a silent war going on
and it isn’t about religion,
that’s the excuse they keep trying to use,
as they carry out attacks with precision.

It is an immoral brotherhood that’s true,
who fight for control unrelenting,
they don’t care what they take, they don’t care how they hurt,
they don’t care if we are consenting.

It’s all about making us submissive to them,
keeping us under their thumb,
and when you stand up for yourself and you fight,
they publicly violate you and make you look dumb.

This isn’t about beliefs in any God above
as they attempt to claim and state,
it is about creating chaos to then assume negative control,
and to gain power over others by breeding hate.

And these people are made up of teenagers,
and adults in positions of power whose morality is spent,
Who haven’t been taught a moral line or code
and that submission is not the same as consent.

So if people really want a change in the world for the better,
then good people will need to stand up and deliver,
before we are more robbed of our livelihoods,
and left out in the cold to shiver.

This isn’t a fight about religious beliefs,
but rather a test of our humanity,
as people abuse their positions of power
then seek footing by testing their victim’s sanity.

If you really want peace to come to the world
then start empowering better quality people,
make red, green and blue only colors of crayons again,
and learn to accept all the spires and steeples.

If you really want peace to come to the world,
then it isn’t about who you can enslave,
it is about providing opportunities for all,
and making the real bad guys behave.

I know it’s all about accountability,
and to stop the endless flip-flop and document redacting,
as blame and the truth gets all turned around,
as it is on the good guys right now that the blame is exacting.

This is a test of our humanity,
to stop injustices once and for all,
and return prosperity to people all over the world,
Because truly that is our call.

There is a silent war among us,
and it has left many good people in its path,
if all we are is sad entertainment for them,
then they are doomed to feel God’s wrath.

Yes there is a silent war among us,
and it affects more than just you and me,
it affects every nation and people
across every land and sea.

Is there a difference in the world I can make,
I am but one small butterfly?
but if I flap my thin wings just slightly enough,
then someone might feel me try.

Yes, there is a silent war among us,
and we are dying more each and every day…..
You can choose to do nothing at all,
or you can choose to make a positive difference today.

Stephanie K. Dow

Original Poem…….. Monday, May 13 2013 

She once celebrated the beauty in the world all around,
but her countenance changed and she’s quieted the sound,
Her songs left unstated, her notes left unsung,
Her voice taken from her from foes lurking among.

Against her will one by one they feast and did take,
and didn’t stop when they realized they’d made a mistake,
a manipulation going on ordered by one nameless above,
a cover up, an upsweep, intended to silence the dove.

It wasn’t she who had done wrong, but was they who misled.
And they played her and then blamed her and left her for dead.
Desperate to cover their tracks, these people did whatever it took,
not wanting to bear responsibility for themselves being crooks.

And all the beauty in the world that was once bathed in sweet light,
became dark and foreboding and covered by night.
Because that was their mission, to possess her happiness and love,
then to cover for themselves and their greed at the expense of the dove.

It was entertaining for them to keep putting her in pain,
and she is consumed now by her hatred and her utter disdain.
The beautiful songs and melodies for so long still left unheard,
the ivories she once cherished are left completely unstirred.

A solitary flower that stands the truest victim of all,
betrayed by those near her, for whom she would call.
She’s betrayed noone in her life for she chose not to take,
She is without any guilt of their same mistake.

She protected their wrongdoings, she did all the right things,
thus she has no fear if the mockingbird sings.
Bring it on if you shall, because she is without any fears,
In the end it won’t be her who will be shedding the tears.

The one truest patriot above all the rest,
despite all they do in damage, she gives everyday her best.
Betrayed and exploited by those with earwigs and curly cords,
There will come a day yet when honest people will lift up their swords.

And beauty shall then awaken and come out of the dark,
and the melodies will flow as in tune with the lark,
for justice shall happen make no mistake,
and filthy water will recede back into the muddy lake.

Sunshine and hope will abound in the face of all strife,
and the world will once again seek the beauty and grace of life.
Those oppressed will rise and reclaim the land,
and earth will rejoice being lifted from darkness’ hand.

There will come a day when she walks with the light,
and nonfeasance and apathy are brushed aside for what is right.
And those who truly caused harm will be vanquished for good,
and peace and prosperity will return to the just, as it should.

For the laws of this land are made for all men,
you can’t bend them and twist them against your brethren.
Those making the laws need stop and pause,
and to know that some upstairs twist the story for their own sordid cause.

Trust is a delicate fragile flower as one can find,
thus rather than get used again and again, she left it all behind.
Truth is on her side, regardless of what it looks,
one day she will have swift justice on the crooks.

She has hurt no one, no person in her life,
but they continue to hurt her with their words and their fife.
They aren’t telling the truth while they bury her under their feet,
but the flower waits dormant beneath the concrete.

The servant shall rise from between the toes,
and oppression shall fall as the northeast wind blows,
Beauty shall once again return to the earth,
as she who once sung with the birds shall know of her worth.

Tis the end of her poem now, farewell she does bide.
She was one damaged by the ebb and flow of the tide.
Her thoughts now in silence the blame is not really hers,
and the seed hidden under concrete silently stirs.

For the meadow grass is green in the summer sun,
and there is a beauty to life you all dismissed in your fun,
Whilst you mocked and you stole, and you damaged her soul,
The final smirk will be hers when the story becomes whole.

Stephanie K. Dow

Fake Gunmen enter Iron Man movie showing as a publicity stunt……. Friday, May 10 2013 

These companies are intentionally frightening people and then conveniently sweeping it under the rug as if those being damaged by it have the issue. They need to get sued for it. Eventually someone is going to kill someone by accident and it will be the fault of the companies that are creating the hysteria problem in the first place prompting the reactions that will ultimately cause damage.

The administration, at the school in this country that staged an attack without the staff being made aware it was only a drill, should be fired immediately as well. Any SANE school board in this country would have taken immediate action against the administration for being completely inappropriate in a professional setting.

These actions will only desensitize the American public against violence and make matters worse because when it really happens people won’t take it as seriously and won’t care to act quickly enough.


If I were

All I have to say right now about this one…….. Thursday, May 9 2013 

Adding these men to my VERY LONG list of men to have castrated………enough said. This is a problem that goes WAY too ignored.

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